Episode 8: Victoria Bruce: Living A Perfectly Balanced Life As A Caregiver

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No one prepares you to suddenly become a caregiver to your aging parent. But for most of us in midlife, it’s happening, whether we want it to or not. In this episode, Joelle talks with author, filmmaker, and lifelong friend Victoria Bruce about the challenges she is facing as she balances family, career, and in-home caregiving for two amazing parents (who happen to live on the other side of the country).

Key Takeaways:

• Managing responsibilities for aging parents and adult children requires emotional resilience and prioritization. Caring for elderly parents involves role reversal, embracing mortality, and finding joy amidst difficulties.
• Maintain self-care practices like exercise, social connections, and hobbies to provide balance when caregiving. Open communication and addressing safety concerns proactively can prevent conflicts with aging parents.
• Reflecting on familial bonds and cherishing quality time with loved ones is important. Non-traditional career paths and continuous learning can lead to success and fulfillment. Find the perfect balance between traditional jobs, adventurous pursuits, and responsible parenting.
• Prioritizing retirement planning and avoiding short-sighted decision-making is crucial for long-term financial security. Have a plan, engage in fulfilling activities, and avoid isolation so that you can foster personal growth and well-being.

“You always have to have a plan that's moving you forward. You always have to have an idea.” - Victoria Bruce